If you want to enjoy yourself more in bed, the first thing you need to be clear about is that you are the owner of your own pleasure. If you don't believe that you deserve to enjoy yourself, you will never do it to the fullest. And, therefore, you will not be able to enjoy yourself with your partner. The most important thing is to enjoy yourself in order to be able to do so as a couple.
Knowing what you like
The first thing you should do is give yourself pleasure, but this doesn't only happen through masturbation. Think about the style of sexual relations you would like to have in order to put it into practice.
First of all, remember that you need to be comfortable. Otherwise, it is obvious that no one can reach climax. Having an orgasm is not only a physical issue that depends on your body position or a physical sensation, it is also a mental issue. And if your sexual partner does not make you feel good about yourself, you will not reach orgasm.
Don't think too much
When you're having sex, don't think so much about aspects such as the duration of intercourse or the positions, but rather about your pleasure. Focus on what you like, you'll be more aroused and this will be reflected in the quality of the encounter.
Positions to enjoy more
It has been proven that there are a number of positions that generally turn women on. The first of these is when he is lying down and you are on his pelvis. You will need to leave a space between your genitals to stimulate each other;
The classic missionary position is another one. To do it successfully you will have to raise your legs to the height of his chest or place your pelvis on pillows. Raise your ankles to one of his shoulders and then let yourself fall to the side to make a semi-spoon.
Also, doing a movement like swinging your hips back and forth will also help you feel more. But don't do it too quickly from the start, or you'll block your sensory capacity and not enjoy it as much.
Other tips
Don't hesitate and use certain products or accessories. You'll have the option of using a toy, massage oil or any vibrator. Remember that the encounter should be a moment in which both of you enjoy it and that includes individual pleasure as well.
Remember that everything must comply with the strategy: being able to enjoy it without forcing yourself and reject it if it makes you uncomfortable.
