The secrets of cunnilingus

To perform good oral sex, specifically, good cunnilingus, you must follow the following steps that we have compiled based on our experience in the world of sex. We assure you that with them you will become a true expert in oral love skills!

To perform cunnilingus well, the first thing you need to do is know your body as well as your partner's. Sometimes, clumsiness in bed means that no matter how much desire you have for the other person, you still don't enjoy the experience.

Among the keys to performing a good cunnilingus we find the following. First of all, you must keep in mind that rushing is not good if what you are looking for is to perform a good cunnilingus. Don't go straight to the area, but rather it would be better to start with some kisses and caresses in areas such as the mouth and neck to gradually go down and get to the action.

Something that will make a difference when it comes to doing a good cunnilingus is to have a can of some sweet drink near you. By drinking this type of liquid, the tongue becomes much softer and all this also causes more saliva to be produced. All of this will be an ideal combination to enter her intimate area.

Cunnilingus is different from fellatio, so it's best to go at a slower pace instead of alternating different speeds, as you would do with this practice.

The steps to glorious cunnilingus

It's best to start by kissing and licking the outside of the vagina, gently and slowly. Start with the outer areas, the folds of the legs, the outer lips, take your time. Remember that patience is your best ally!

Tip: Tell your partner to lie down, relax and do nothing but enjoy, this way he or she can concentrate 100% on the sensations

While you may find a girl who wants hardcore action from the start, most of us don't work that way 😛 And there's a reason it's recommended to spend between 20 and 40 minutes of foreplay to get to a maximum level of excitement before penetration. Have fun, play, explore with your tongue, try giving little sucks, lick, get deep, but do it slowly, feel and pay attention to how your partner and her body responds to your actions.

Sometimes girls take a little longer to relax, taking your time and going at a calm pace will unlock her! You can start by caressing her neck, her breasts, her belly, going down to her area and stopping just before you reach it. Go around and continue down her legs, caressing excites, our skin is our entire erogenous zone if we give it our all. Do the same with your mouth, kiss her body, go up and down, feel the area, this way you will also be more confident where you are going.

You can use your hands to caress while you use your mouth to explore between her legs, caress to guide your mouth then, feel her inner lips, notice if she is wet or not yet, touch her clitoris, surely by now you will notice that she is excited and her clitoris is more swollen. Keep going, you are doing great! Use your imagination and keep going, increase the level of saliva, and when you have gone over her inner lips go down to the end of the vagina and slowly go up, you will feel her clitoris as it rises and fix it very gently in your mouth. You have to be extremely careful at first, we all have different levels of sensitivity, you will get to know it as your partner will get to know yours (e.g. on your glans).

In recent years, the so-called clitoris suckers have become very popular... Do you know why? It is one of the best sensations described by its users. Well, you have to do something similar, suck lightly and suck the clitoris playing with it with the tip of your tongue inside your mouth.

With saliva and its lubrication you can insert a finger while repeating/following the previous steps.

The moment you notice her muscle tension increasing, or she asks you not to stop, it doesn't mean you have to increase your pace, many times if you continue doing exactly what you were doing, she will cum.

Techniques you can use with your tongue: To perform a good cunnilingus, it is best to make irregular movements with your tongue and very little by little You will increase both the speed and the pressure applied. If you get tired of making circular movements or going from side to side, try the alphabet technique, try doing it from A to Z with different speeds. You won't fail. Use your imagination, lick and play as you would like it to be done to you 🙂

You must pay close attention to your partner's body language, because to get him or her to reach orgasm you have to learn to listen to his or her body. Look at the rhythm of his or her breathing, his or her moans and body posture... Muscle spasms are another unmistakable sign. When you see that he or she is already very excited, it will be time to increase the pressure, something that will of course also increase the pleasure.

Voila, you are an expert in good cunnilingus.

With these simple steps, an orgasm is practically guaranteed, and if you want the experience to be even more complete, you can add some lubricant (hot or cold) or a sex toy.

Remember that you can ask your partner what he or she likes, we girls love a guy who is attentive in this sense. If you are both relatively new to this sexual practice, explore together, what he or she likes the most? Caress, suck, kiss, try different pressures… Tell your partner that you love making him or her enjoy and you want to do it better… it can only bring good things!

Tip: If at the end of this experience you don't have your face covered in your own saliva and she's grabbing your hair or pressing her knees together in excitement, try again.