There are a number of myths surrounding male sexuality that almost all of us have heard at some point. Both modern society and the media have projected a very clear image of male sexuality. These are the most prominent myths:
Myth #1: Men are not naturally monogamous, but women are
Women are taught not to show or demonstrate their sexual attraction to more than one guy at a time and have been severely punished for doing so. However, women's biology and personality is ideally suited to having multiple partners at once, even more so than men's biology.
The masculine often has a deep desire for simplicity, and monogamy is generally much simpler than non-monogamy.
Women have been shown to be better at multitasking and have better communication skills, both of which are important in multiple relationships. Also, since women generally take longer to become sexually aroused and reach orgasm, having more than one sexual partner can work to your advantage.
Myth #2: Men are more interested in sex than women
Women may become disinterested in sex as a result of social conditioning, untreated relationship problems, or personal burnout, but all of these aspects represent deviations from their inherent nature. When freed from negative sex conditioning and social judgments, women crave erotic connection as much or more than men.
It may seem that men are more interested in sex because their sexual organs are more visible than women's, and because they are taught that sex is about their own pleasure.
But the truth is that both men and women can benefit from learning more about their own bodies and seeking instruction on how to give and receive pleasure.
Myth #3: A bigger penis is better
A bigger penis doesn't necessarily mean better. Size compatibility is the real issue. A big penis and a small vagina are not a good combination. The truth is that knowing how to use your penis skillfully is much more important than its size.
This can be learned. A smaller penis is often easier to handle inside the vagina, and can motivate a man to explore a variety of ways to please his lover.
