Safety and Verification Tips for Luxury Escort Workers
Personal safety is paramount for any worker in the adult industry. Here are some practical tips to ensure that every encounter is conducted as safely and efficiently as possible.
How to Select Clients Effectively
Identity Verification: Selecting the right clients can make a big difference in your security. Here are some steps to follow:
- Verification and References: Ask for a valid ID and verify its authenticity. If the client wishes to remain anonymous and you cannot verify it, we offer a customer verification service on our platform. If possible, ask for references from other workers in the sector. You can do this on OK if you are part of the community or talk to escort friends.
You can do a deeper filter if you cannot verify their identity or number. Many corporate clients will be completely OK with sharing their contact information with you as long as you are an independent escort and especially if you already have experience or references on forums that can verify your integrity. In some countries like the USA it is very common to ask for references from another escort in the sector or even an agency. At OK we have been offering this service to our clients for many years.
Prepaid and Guarantee
- Prepaid: If you are a girl from our platform and you are verified with us, you can ask for a prepayment and mention that you have our seal of quality. It is increasingly common, even in Spain, to ask for a prepayment of between 40 and 50 euros for the appointment (Some luxury escorts in Spain charge up to 100 euros per pre-booking). In case of no-show or cancellation with less than [required time], a fine or the entire prepayment may be charged. Once on the date, it is deducted from the meeting.
- Payment methods: Online banks and apps: Wise, Revolut, BUNQ (many international customers already have a Revolut account and can send you an instant payment with a simple @username). Other currencies like Crypto Currencies. More traditional methods like Bizzum, Instant Transfer in your bank app, Paypal.
- Warranties: If you have mentions or references on forums, you can mention them as another guarantee of your quality and trust so that they can make a prepayment. Remember that if the appointment is booked at short notice, they should pay you well in advance or make the payment instantly. You can skip the booking if you hear excuses such as “I can only do a bank transfer and it will take days to arrive.” This does not happen, there are enough payment methods and if it does not suit you, you can go to another provider. Ask for quality and offer quality to your clients and you will be surprised at how many people will appreciate it. Word of mouth will make many others trust you to make a prepayment.
- Customer Refusal: If a customer refuses to identify themselves, verify themselves, or pay for a booking, they are not worth your time and it is better to wait for a higher quality one. No matter how many pretexts there are about privacy (they offer several payment methods, including cryptocurrencies) or inconvenience (they mention that this is a one-time thing and it is worth it), your safety comes first.
Pre-Appointment Filter
- Initial Filter: There are clients who will try to waste your time with endless phone calls or a free video call. Filter them first via chat or email and if the message seems okay, offer to call to confirm the details of the booked appointment before setting it up. This way, you avoid wasting time and ensure that the client is serious.
Personal Safety Strategies During Dating
Report to Someone You Trust
- Live Location: It's nice to have a best friend or a work friend who you can send your live location to.
Safe Places
- Demand Quality Standards: If you offer luxury services, require the client to stay in a hotel with at least 4 stars if your rates exceed 300 euros per hour. Do not accept addresses from unverified clients. In case of hotel reservations, ask the client to send a verification photo once they check in. The escort will not travel until she has received the prepayment.
Using Technologies and more tips
In the digital age, the use of advanced technologies can be a great ally in improving quality and peace of mind when working in the adult industry. Here are some practical tips to make the most of these tools:
- If you have to send photos, send private photos: Use apps that allow one-time photo uploads to verify your photos without leaving a permanent trace.
- Private Telegram Groups: Create private Telegram groups with screenshot prohibition to maintain a safe channel with your VIPs. Don't know how to get VIPs? We'll teach you.
- Blocking Unknown (or repetitive) Numbers: Don't accept unknown numbers and block them directly from your iPhone or Android to avoid unwanted contacts. Extra tip: Most smartphones also offer other options to block repetitive calls, spam, etc.
- Verification by call: Don't accept appointments without a phone number or a call to verify the client. A quick 5-minute call can help you get to know the person better and provide the best experience, as well as put your mind at ease by knowing more about them.
- Beware of Suspicious Offers: Be wary of clients who offer too much up front, strange plans, or vague payment methods. Your safety and peace of mind come first.
- Time Optimization: Don't waste your time. Your time is valuable. Provide as much information as possible in a clear and concise manner. Beyond that, they will have to pay for your company.
- Kindness: Always be courteous in your interactions. Courtesy and professionalism will help you build a solid reputation and attract more quality clients.
Safety is a priority. Implementing these tips will help you stay safe and calm in your daily work. If you ever feel like something isn't right, trust your intuition. There are plenty of clients out there and we'll help you get more and quality ones if you need them.
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