Edging
If you have heard about edging and you don't know what it is or what it consists of or how to achieve it, pay attention because we bring you everything you need to know about it. Edging is an English word that means “edge”. It is used to refer to the limits of an object.
This meaning applied to the world of sex refers precisely to the edge or limit (of climax), at the same time that you approach orgasm.
Edging is therefore understood as a method that places us right on the threshold of excitement as a denial of orgasm.
The expression “orgasm denial” is used to refer to different sexual games, which are usually associated with practices such as bondage, BDSM, domination and submission. It refers to the action by which the person obeys the order to maintain the levels of arousal that are ordered. It is a type of orgasm control both alone and with a partner.
Orgasm control
If you think that it is not possible to control orgasms, the truth is that there are a series of methods that do allow you to achieve it. These methods include breathing exercises, knowing how to control yourself, inhaling and exhaling, etc.
In any case, a man will not control his orgasm in the same way that a woman can. For example, in the case of men and when performing male masturbation, the most commonly used technique is to squeeze the urethra at the base of the penis, just above the scrotum, when the desire to ejaculate appears.
The goal is to stop any type of stimulation, while maintaining the erection. This technique can also be performed during intercourse.
When it comes to controlling the female orgasm, it's all about learning how the body works so you can modulate pleasure, mastering the sensations that allow you to reach climax, whenever and however you want. For the vast majority of those who practice edging, it's not only an interesting sexual game, but something as pleasurable as the orgasm itself.
In clitoral orgasms
If your orgasms come from the clitoris, you will have to reach a high point of arousal, stop, and immediately alternate the technique. If you reach climax by varying internal and external stimulation, then you will have to try to vary the rhythm you have during the sexual act.
