Slow Sex: We Discover the Slow Path to Sexual Happiness
The idea of reaching orgasm is quite popular and fortunately, nowadays there are many paths to take to achieve it. However, in this post we want to make special reference to the fact that “it is not the goal, but the path”, and that is precisely why more and more ways to have sex are emerging every day.
This time we are going to talk about a new and much talked about “strategy”: slow sex or in other words “the slow path to sexual happiness”. Below we will explain in detail what this new trend is all about.
Slow Sex, The Trendy Sexual Term for Delaying Ejaculation
The term slow sex describes the slow and calm way of having sex, and if we go a little further, we can describe it as the way to enjoy every second of a sex session, without rushing to achieve ejaculation and orgasm.
Now, unlike many other paths you can take to sexual pleasure, slow sex involves both the acts during sex and the acts leading up to it. Examples of this could be a romantic dinner, aphrodisiac foods, sexual games, tickling, etc.
Why is this way of having sex a trend?
This topic of slow sex arose from the fact that, lately, sex is becoming a somewhat mechanical affair. In view of this, here we have an alternative that leads us to complete enjoyment and happiness, all thanks to the fact that we take things a little more calmly.
If we look at the statistics, they show that in 2012 the average time spent in bed for Spaniards was 15 minutes, while in other countries such as Brazil or Hong Kong it was 25 and 29 minutes respectively, which is a relatively acceptable amount of time.
Now, do we want to reach orgasm or do we want to enjoy the whole sex session? We bet that the answer is closer to the second alternative, and that is why slow sex is today one of the best ways to be happy in bed.
What Should You Do to Practice 'Slow Sex'?
To practice slow sex, the most important thing is not to go straight to ejaculation. After removing our fixation on this topic, we concentrate more on the enjoyment of bodies, and to help you a little with the matter, we have prepared 10 tips or rather commandments for practicing slow sex.
- Explore your body. Know yourself and know your partner, knowing what you both like is always a great help.
- Stop and talk. It's not all about sex, man! In these cases, dialogue is part of the previous acts.
- Using hands is prohibited. Believe it or not, forbidding yourself from using your hands delays orgasm and makes the date last longer.
- Use sex toys. They are never a bad idea and are always a good alternative.
- Play with the senses.
- Raise the level of eroticism.
- Use blindfolds.
- Fellatio and cunnilingus. Better known as oral sex practices, they will become great allies to make sex a longer lasting event.
- Try new things.
- And finally, shameless!
What Should You Avoid When Practicing 'Slow Sex'?
Once you get all these tips down, you'll be ready. However, we recommend two things if you want to practice slow sex: don't overdo penetration and don't overdo oral sex. This is because the friction generated on the penis during these acts is very provocative, so you won't be able to resist it for long.
On the other hand, we recommend that you increase the foreplay and if you want to finish the job, resort to intercourse in a position you have not tried before. After all this, only one thing remains: complete and absolute sexual happiness. Let's celebrate!
