We would all like to have sex for hours at least once in a while. But there are people who have even gone as far as having eight-hour relationships. If you want to achieve this, you must learn from them a series of aspects. Take note and you will succeed!
First of all, you must be careful with expectations. If you set the bar too high and imagine a series of aspects that have never really occurred you are leaving less room for pleasure to appear.
Think that the expectations you are imagining are probably based on TV and movies rather than reality and forgetting about these unrealistic comparisons will only make you focus on what you are really experiencing. Only in this way will you be able to better control the slowness or speed of your pleasure.
Knowing your body is another key that will allow you to have a much more pleasurable session. The more you know your body, the better you will be able to make your requests to your partner during sex. Also in case you have Tantric sex: the exploration of your own body to better understand the points through which you reach pleasure.
Do not rush sex, neither during intercourse nor during foreplay. Your goal should be to penetrate three times for every 30 that you would normally do, only then will you truly be able to last this long. In this way, you will be able to fully enjoy the moment.
Keep in mind that if you get distracted during the sex session you will be jeopardizing your connection. So if you feel your thoughts drifting away, focus on what you are feeling and experiencing at that moment and limit all distractions.
Of course put your phone away. Although it may seem obvious, 1 in 5 people check their phones while having sex.
Also, don’t forget that one of the fundamental aspects for Tantric sex to work is to truly love your partner. Think about the things that make your partner wonderful.
Don’t forget to open your mind when talking about sex. Not everything has to be related to the genitals, and not everything has to focus on orgasm. Think foreplay, massages, etc.
